Feeling Hopeless

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Letter: "I do not know why I am writing this - it really is so in contrast to me to actually really feel 'hopeless.' I am a single mom raising two teenaged boys. Following my youngest was assaulted on the way to school last year, I quit a decent job in television to start my own advertising and marketing/p.r. enterprise out of my property. I had two customers that, at the time, which enabled me to make a lot more than I had working for the tv station. And then in March, one particular of the clientele and I parted techniques. We had extremely diverse expectations. Ultimately, we each had contrasting views over what my role would be. That cut my revenue in half.

I have attracted 1 new client - but at a third of what my former client paid. And now, I am in debt (deeply). And now, I am in debt (deeply), my account is overdrawn since my other significant client "got behind" and did not place in my automatic payment into my account till yesterday - and it requires 24-72 hours for it to show up (they had told me it was going to be put in last Thursday)! My ex's youngster support is late and I don't even have adequate cash to pay for groceries till the cash shows up. I'm terrified that checks will bounce and I'll be left with absolutely nothing.

I can not sleep. My stomach is in knots. I nearly feel as if my children would be far better off with hosted ftp their dad. He's extremely properly off and could afford to give them every thing I cannot.

I do not know how to get out of this poverty mentality. I don't know why I have such feelings of lack when it comes to my finances. Tomorrow I hosting ftp have a meeting with a potential client and I can't even focus on placing together a presentation for him. It is as if I currently know that he won't want to operate with me, let alone Pay me. I get so up for things, I have such fantastic expectations and then everything falls flat.

In ALL other locations of my life, I'm doing nicely. My kids are terrific - excellent hearts, straight-A students, superb athletes. I don't have weight concerns.

I don't have problems with my relationships with the opposite sex. It's just that Cash appears to be slipping out of my grasp.

Very honestly, I do believe that cash buys a fair amount of happiness. At least for me, realizing what I've gone through these past years, it would get some peace of thoughts. And that's what I want. Freedom and peace of thoughts. To go where I want. To do what I want. To Really feel how I want to feel.

Can you support me get out of this negative spiral?"

A Reader

Rebecca's reply:

"Dear Reader,

Thanks so considerably for writing. And I hope you are feeling much better. YEP. I've been there a couple of instances. I can keep in mind days when all I could do was walk about the home saying, 'I just want to feel good' over and over. Eventually, I did start off to feel greater. Now, feeling great is my dominant feeling.

Really, you are an exceptional 'attractor'--look at what you are telling your self about money and then notice how you are attracting more of the exact same.

If I were coaching you, I would ask you to take a piece of paper, and draw a massive letter T on it. Then label the left column I dont want and the proper hand column, I do want.

1st make a list of everything you dont want. Just use the letter you sent to me and write down stuff like:

I dont want clients paying me late.

I dont want low-cost customers who cant afford to pay what Im ftp services worth.

I don't want child support payments to be late.

Get all the negatives OUT of your self and onto paper.

Then go via every item, and ask your self, If I dont want this, what do I want? and write down what you DO want in the right hand column.

When youve written a Do Want for each item on the left, FOLD THE PAPER down the middle so you are looking at the 'Do Want' list. Maintain that list in front of you at all occasions. Start off to envision what it would feel like obtaining clients who JOYFULLY spend for your services. How great it is when the Child Support checks arrive a day early! Operate at keeping your Concentrate on what you DO WANT. If you commence to consider or talk about some thing on the Dont Want side, just say, Ive dealt with that, AND what I DO want is

The T-tool is the Best Law of Attraction Tool for finding clarity! And after you have clarity, what you want IS on its way to you.